Dear Birthmother,

Dear Expectant Mother,

Thank you again for even giving our profile a read. Thank you for thinking of the needs of your child. Thank you for considering adoption as this has to be the most difficult decision in your life. We have gone through rough days with Melissa’s health concerns, which pale in comparison to the decision you have to make. And we know you are not making this decision lightly. Without you, we would not be able to create the family we have always envisioned for our lives. If chosen, we will forever be grateful for your selflessness, as we cannot even imagine the emotions you must be feeling.

Please rest assured that if we adopt your child, your child will be loved every day of their life. Your child will always have a home that is full of love, laughter, and probably a lot of good food. If given the opportunity, we will always make sure your child understands the sacrifice you made for them—the sacrifice we know you are making because you love your child more than anything. We will strive to incorporate you into your child’s life and raise them with the knowledge of your loving impact on their life.

Thank you again for making this difficult decision and giving us the opportunity to share who we are with you.

Zack and Melissa