Dear Birthmother,

Dear Expectant Mother,

We don’t know each other yet, but we hope our paths will soon converge. We’re bringing nothing but our open minds and hearts with us on this journey. We’d love to meet you, to listen, and to celebrate your boundless courage. We would travel to the ends of the earth to meet you where you’re at because that is what we do for family. Your decision, your plan, and your hopes and dreams for your child’s future will become our hopes and dreams should you bless us with this gift. Your gift will forever be cherished and honored.

From the moment your child is part of our lives, they will find an enormous and unconditional love in our home. They will be doted upon by grandparents, aunts and uncles, and many excited cousins! We will raise your child to be bold, to speak their mind, to seek new challenges, and to be generous of spirit. We can assure you your child will always feel safe and be protected by us and, of course, Linus and Lenore.

Your child will be encouraged in their pursuits and will have many opportunities to learn and grow. We share the strong belief that they will know where they came from and that we celebrate their culture and heritage as a family. Most importantly, your child will be reminded that they are loved every day—just like our parents have done for us. And, just like us, I’m sure they’ll find it a tad annoying at times, but we will welcome the eye rolls!

In gratitude & joy,
Rob & Matt