Dear Birthmother,

Dear Expectant Mother,

As we were putting together our profile, this was by far the hardest part. Not knowing you, it is impossible for us to understand your situation that brought you to the idea of adoption. With that being said, we understand the courage and strength it takes to get to this point. We hope you will take the time to get to know us and hopefully learn that we are more than just a bunch of cute pictures.

In 2019 we met while both serving in the Navy. We can tell you that our story did not start off with love but with friendship. We were both going through divorces, and one of us had children to think about. Our struggles brought us closer together, and it was nice to have someone who understood what each other was going through. Since then, our relationship has only grown. When you see us together, unless you ask the children directly, you would never know who the bonus parent is because there is equal love from both of us. Even on our worst of days, we know we’re stuck because we are each other’s best friend.

We understand you have already demonstrated your great love for your baby just by taking adoption into consideration, and for that, you have our highest respect. If given the chance, we would love the opportunity to prove ourselves and the love we have to give.

Forever grateful,
Mary and Judge