Dear Birthmother,

To the Bravest Woman:

We cannot imagine being in your shoes and having to make this difficult decision. Considering this selfless decision shows you have this incredible and untouchable strength. It also shows you have the confidence in yourself to trust that your child will end up in the right hands and live the best life. Learning about the adoption process has been a lot, to say the least. The one major thing we have learned is the importance of you, the expectant mother, and your feelings. Our top priority (besides caring for your child) will be showing you the respect, care, and support you need and deserve. The amount of gratitude and admiration for you will be insurmountable. Since we have waited so long to become parents, your child will be loved and cherished not only by us but all of our family and friends. They are extremely supportive and want this just as much as we do. Grandmas and grandpas are ready to spoil them rotten!

We want to emphasize to you that adoption is not a second choice for us; rather, it is our unique story of becoming a mom and dad. Some people just want to have kids to have kids, but we both truly believe our purpose in life is to be parents. We want to share a quote we see every day in our bedroom from Pablo Picasso: ”The meaning of life is to find your gift; the purpose of life is to give it away.” We cannot think of a better quote to live by each and every day with our situation, and we would love to give our gift to you and your child.