Dear Birthmother,

Hello.

We want to say that your selflessness and bravery are inspiring, and we hope you know how incredible you are. We cannot begin to comprehend the difficulty you have had choosing a family for your precious child, but we would be forever grateful if you chose us.

We knew that being in a same-sex marriage, there would be more difficulties and hurdles in starting a family. At points, we did not know if it would be possible for us. You choosing us as the fathers of your baby would mean an answered prayer and a dream come true for us.

We hope you understand we would love your child with our whole hearts and souls. We promise to provide a loving, stable environment for your child to grow up in and a community of people who will be there through every stage of life.

Love,
Austin and Justin

To your child:

You are the most precious and perfect baby; we love and adore you. We are so honored and privileged to be considered your daddies. We always promise to provide you with a loving and safe environment, no matter what. We promise to support you through every chapter of your life. You will have so many cousins, aunts, uncles, and grandparents waiting to spoil and love you with all their hearts. You will be our world and our everything. We have prayed for you for years and can’t wait to meet you.

Love,
Your dads