Dear Birthmother,

We’d like to start by letting you know how much we respect and admire your strength and courage in considering an adoption plan. We know this decision cannot be easy, and we are grateful you are considering giving us the chance to become your child’s parents. We chose to go the route of adoption when we were unable to conceive naturally. We feel we are going to be amazing parents, and with the support of our friends and family, this child will never go a day without feeling loved and supported.

More than anything, we want you to know we will love your child unconditionally and will nurture him or her to grow up to be the best person he or she can be. We promise to raise him or her with values such as generosity, kindness, and respect for others. We also promise to encourage your child’s hopes and dreams and to provide the best possible education. We want you to be a part of your child’s life at any level you're comfortable with. We’ll make sure they grow with the understanding and appreciation of the tremendous sacrifice you made out of love. Your child will always know where he or she came from and how much you loved them.