Dear Birthmother,

Thank you so much for the opportunity to introduce ourselves to you, and for taking the time to get to know a little bit about us. We cannot begin to understand what led you to this life-changing decision for both you and us. We want to be able to ease your concern about the future for your child and express how grateful we would be if you decided to trust us with your choice. We have been married for nearly 13 years and after many years of trying to conceive naturally, then several unsuccessful attempts with fertility treatments, the family we had hoped to have no longer seemed possible. This led us to explore the idea of adoption. Maybe this could be the way we grow our family and offer a child the great life we hope to provide. We both have large families that are so very excited to welcome this new little addition, with whom we would love to share our traditions, holidays, and everything else. Please be assured your child will always know how much you love them and how grateful we are that you gave us the opportunity to grow our family.