Dear Birthmother,

If I imagine myself in your shoes, considering adoption, I believe I would feel overwhelmed and perhaps even frightened. This is a challenging decision for you, to say the least. While I am sure this is not an easy time for you, I hope for better days ahead for you, and I want to let you know my thoughts are with you. From my point of view, adoption feels like the ultimate act of love and of being a mother: the hope for your baby to thrive and flourish and taking the necessary steps to make that happen. The fact that you love and cherish your baby is evident, and I am humbled by that love.

My dream has always been to be a mom, and I wish to share with you my commitment to being a responsible, kind, and loving mom. I am blessed with parents who have been my constant source of strength—enduring, comforting, and supportive. My commitment to you is that I will strive to model that for your baby as well.

I would sincerely appreciate the opportunity to speak with you and answer any questions you may have. Thank you for your consideration, and I wish you and your baby the very best.

Sincerely,
Ashley