Dear Birthmother,

We’ve had the privilege and honor to walk alongside a birthmother before. We saw firsthand how difficult this time was for her and acknowledged her bravery in the choice to place her child for adoption. It has been one of the very most important and meaningful experiences we have ever shared with someone.

We want you to know we will honor you along the way. We believe you have every right to choose what is best for you, and we will fully support that until the very end. If you choose us, no matter how you’d like to move forward with the process, we will always tell your child your story and how they got here. It starts with you, and we will honor that. From day one, we have shared with our child stories, photos, and letters from his birthmom. It is such a beautiful part of his own story. We would do this with you too at any level you’re comfortable with.

We would be grateful to walk beside you in any of this, if you choose us. We will also always respect your wishes and boundaries as you navigate this road. None of this is easy, and we very much see and hear you in all of this. Know that whatever decision it is you make, we honor you, we celebrate you and who you are, and we welcome you into our hearts forever.